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Sunday, November 30, 2008
A friend of mine was telling me the other day that I was not blogging based on my objectives, which was to share all those abrupt rapid thoughts stored in my brain! He was grouching about how common it was to read into the humdrum of one’s present.
I agree la. Notwithstanding my real reasons to blog, I still blog about the happenings of today because I thought, if I only share about what’s in mind, it would sound like I’m preaching or giving some kind of lecture. I wouldn’t want you guys to be reading some lengthy rebukes either. Wouldn’t that be monotonous also?
However, my mind is really filled with much foreboding. Being me, this kind of things can trouble me emotionally and mentally. Disturbing!
The fact that girls nowadays get so hooked up with their boyfriends and getting so worked up with their relationship problems can upset me at times. I mean, we are all so young, going through the period where we still mingle around and meet new people.
If your boyfriend gives you faulty treatments and therefore makes him seem imperfect to you, LEAVE HIM!! That’s it! It’s mean..yes it is..and I am not even saying it is easy to do that. No it is not. It took me almost half a year. But if you have to do it, do it!
Life is selfish, people! It is too much concerned with our own welfare or interests and having little or no concern for others. Life is prompted by self-interest. Sometimes, we have to think of ourselves before others. Or else, there’ll be nothing left for us.
It takes two hands to clap to start a relationship, and it does not take the other party’s consent for one to leave. You want to leave, you leave. There is nothing anyone can do about it.
Go out there! Meet more people! Give yourself a chance! Maybe, you deserve better!
On the other hand, if you really love your boyfriend, and if it will hurt you more than you’ll hurt him if you leave, then stay. There is nothing I can do about it because maybe, I have never experienced true love.
…but…
STOP GRUMBLING!!!
…and… I am not saying I don’t like it when you come to me whining, expressing your pain. I am here to provide a shoulder for you to cry on. My ears are always open for you to let your heart out. But please!!! Don’t ask me for advice. Maybe I am really bad at it. I will only tell you to break up. Serious! So don’t ok. Don’t!
12:58 PM;
left undecided.
